True Stories From the Hospitals of Bayside, Deming

Dennis Klass's continuing bonds theory—the idea that maintaining a psychological relationship with the deceased is normal, healthy, and even beneficial—has revolutionized grief research since its introduction in the 1990s. Physicians' Untold Stories provides vivid, medically documented illustrations of this theory for readers in Bayside, Deming, New Mexico. The physician accounts of dying patients connecting with deceased loved ones, of after-death communications between the dead and the living, and of inexplicable moments where the presence of a deceased person was felt by medically trained observers all support the continuing bonds framework—and they do so with a credibility that theoretical models alone cannot match.

Dr. Scott Kolbaba

About the Author

Dr. Scott J. Kolbaba, MD is an internist at Northwestern Medicine in Wheaton, Illinois. He interviewed more than 200 physicians about their most extraordinary experiences.

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Physicians' Untold Stories

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Medical Fact

The average surgeon performs between 300 and 800 operations per year, depending on specialty.

Physician Burnout & Wellness Near Bayside, Deming

Physicians practicing in Bayside, Deming, New Mexico work at the intersection of modern medicine and experiences that resist explanation. In conversations that rarely leave the break room or the on-call suite, doctors in and around Bayside, Deming have reported encounters with phenomena that their training never prepared them for — from patients who describe verifiable details about events that occurred while they were clinically dead, to deathbed visions shared simultaneously by multiple family members, to recoveries that defy every prognostic model available.

The medical community in Bayside, Deming includes physicians across every stage of their careers — residents navigating the exhaustion of training, mid-career practitioners balancing clinical demands with family life, and veteran physicians carrying decades of experiences that challenge the boundaries of conventional medicine. Burnout touches all of them differently, but a common thread runs through: the desire to remember why they chose medicine in the first place, and the rare but profound moments that remind them.

Physician Burnout by Specialty

Percentage reporting at least one symptom (Medscape, 2024)

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Medical Fact

The first pacemaker was implanted in 1958 in Sweden — the patient outlived both the surgeon and the inventor.

Ghost Stories and the Supernatural Near Bayside, Deming, New Mexico

Old Spanish mission hospitals near Bayside, Deming, New Mexico carry the ghosts of Franciscan friars who practiced medicine alongside evangelism. These spectral healers appear in brown robes, administering treatments that blend herbal knowledge borrowed from indigenous peoples with European medicine of the colonial era. Their presence suggests that the missions' healing mission—however entangled with colonialism—left a spiritual imprint that persists.

Southwestern sunset light near Bayside, Deming, New Mexico creates visual conditions that blur the boundary between perception and hallucination. Hospital rooms facing west during the golden hour produce more ghostly reports than any other time or orientation—figures in the amber light that could be shadows, could be spirits, could be the desert's way of reminding the living that beauty and death share the same palette.

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Medical Fact

Olfactory neurons are among the few nerve cells that regenerate throughout life — your sense of smell is constantly renewing.

Near-Death Experiences Reported by Physicians Near Bayside, Deming

Peyote ceremonies in the Native American Church near Bayside, Deming, New Mexico produce altered states of consciousness that share features with NDEs—tunnels of light, encounters with ancestors, life reviews, and a sense of cosmic unity. The pharmacological overlap between peyote's mescaline and the endogenous neurochemistry of NDEs suggests that the brain has innate hardware for transcendent experience that different triggers—plant medicine, cardiac arrest, meditation—can activate.

The Southwest's large retirement population near Bayside, Deming, New Mexico means that more cardiac arrests occur in this region per capita than in younger-skewing areas. This demographic reality, combined with the region's advanced cardiac care infrastructure, produces a steady stream of NDE cases that researchers can study prospectively. The Southwest is, inadvertently, the country's largest NDE laboratory.

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Did You Know?

The word "prescription" comes from the Latin "praescriptio," meaning "to write before" — referring to instructions written before a remedy.

Physician Wellness, Grief & Finding Meaning Near Bayside, Deming

Water is the Southwest's most precious resource, and healing near Bayside, Deming, New Mexico is intimately connected to it. Hot springs, sacred rivers, and acequias—the communal irrigation channels that have sustained communities for centuries—all carry healing associations. A physician who understands the cultural significance of water in the desert understands that hydrating a patient is more than a medical act—it's a spiritual one.

Acequias—the communal water systems that have sustained Southwest agriculture for four centuries near Bayside, Deming, New Mexico—provide a model for communal healthcare. The acequia commission, which ensures fair water distribution, operates on principles directly applicable to healthcare equity: everyone contributes labor, everyone receives water, and no one takes more than they need. The acequia is the Southwest's original health cooperative.

Physician Burnout by Specialty

Percentage reporting at least one symptom (Medscape, 2024)

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Did You Know?

The Mayo Clinic, where Dr. Kolbaba trained, sees over 1.3 million patients per year from all 50 states and 140+ countries.

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Did You Know?

A 2019 Gallup poll found that 73% of Americans believe in some form of life after death.

Medical Heritage in New Mexico

New Mexico's medical history is shaped by its tricultural heritage of Native American, Hispanic, and Anglo traditions. The state became a destination for tuberculosis patients in the late 19th century; the dry desert air was believed to be curative, and sanatoriums like the Valmora Industrial Sanatorium near Watrous (opened 1909) and St. Joseph Sanatorium in Albuquerque drew patients from across the country. The University of New Mexico School of Medicine, established in 1964, became a national leader in rural and Native American health, developing the Project ECHO (Extension for Community Healthcare Outcomes) telehealth model in 2003 under Dr. Sanjeev Arora to bring specialist care to remote communities.

The Indian Health Service operates major facilities across New Mexico, including the Gallup Indian Medical Center and the Santa Fe Indian Hospital, serving Navajo, Pueblo, and Apache nations. Los Alamos National Laboratory, while primarily known for nuclear weapons development, has contributed significantly to radiation biology and medical physics research. Presbyterian Healthcare Services, founded in 1908 by the Presbyterian Church to serve Hispanic and Native American communities in remote areas, grew into the state's largest healthcare system. The state's curanderismo tradition—folk healing practiced by curanderos and curanderas—remains a vital complement to Western medicine in many New Mexican communities.

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About the Book

Dr. Kolbaba has received letters from healthcare workers in over 40 countries expressing gratitude for the book.

Supernatural Folklore and Ghost Traditions in New Mexico

New Mexico's supernatural folklore is among the richest in the nation, blending Native American, Spanish colonial, and frontier traditions. La Llorona, the Weeping Woman, is perhaps the most pervasive legend in the state. In New Mexico's version, she is said to be a woman named Maria who drowned her children in the Rio Grande near Albuquerque or Santa Fe after being abandoned by her husband. Her wailing ghost is said to wander the acequias and riverbanks at night, searching for her children, and parents warn children to stay away from ditches after dark.

The KiMo Theatre in downtown Albuquerque, built in 1927 in Pueblo Deco style, is haunted by the ghost of Bobby Darnall, a six-year-old boy who was killed in 1951 when a water heater exploded in the theater's lobby. Performers and staff leave doughnuts on a shelf backstage as an offering to Bobby's spirit, believing that failing to do so will cause technical problems during shows. The Santuario de Chimayó in northern New Mexico, called the "Lourdes of America," is a pilgrimage site where the dirt from a small pit is believed to have miraculous healing powers—the church walls are lined with thousands of crutches, braces, and photographs left by those who claim to have been cured.

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About the Book

Dr. Kolbaba graduated with honors from the University of Illinois College of Medicine.

Haunted Hospitals and Medical Landmarks in New Mexico

Fort Bayard Medical Center (Grant County): Fort Bayard began as a military fort in 1866 and became a tuberculosis sanatorium for soldiers in 1899, later serving as a VA hospital. Thousands of patients died of TB on the grounds, and the large military cemetery adjacent to the facility holds over 400 graves. Staff and visitors report apparitions of soldiers in outdated uniforms walking the grounds, particularly near the cemetery and the old TB wards.

Lovelace-Bataan Memorial Hospital (Albuquerque): Originally built as Bataan Memorial Methodist Hospital in honor of the New Mexican soldiers who survived the Bataan Death March, this facility carries deep emotional weight. Staff have reported the apparition of a man in a World War II military uniform seen in the corridors at night, believed to be one of the Bataan veterans who died at the hospital. Lights flicker unexplainably in the older wings.

Types of Phenomena in the Book

Distribution across 26 physician accounts

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Research Finding

Spending time with friends reduces cortisol levels and increases endorphin production, according to Oxford University research.

How This Book Can Help You

New Mexico, where curanderismo healing traditions coexist alongside modern medicine at institutions like UNM Hospital, provides a cultural framework where the unexplained phenomena Dr. Kolbaba documents in Physicians' Untold Stories are viewed not as anomalies but as part of a broader understanding of the boundary between life and death. The state's Project ECHO telemedicine model connects physicians across vast distances, creating a network where doctors in remote clinics can share extraordinary clinical experiences much as Dr. Kolbaba, at Northwestern Medicine, gathered accounts from colleagues who had witnessed events that transcended conventional medical explanation.

The book's relevance near Bayside, Deming, New Mexico extends beyond individual readers to institutional conversations about how Southwest hospitals should accommodate the spiritual dimensions of patient care. Should hospital design include spaces for traditional ceremonies? Should intake forms ask about spiritual practices? Should chaplaincy teams include traditional healers? This book makes these questions urgent.

Physicians' Untold Stories book cover — by Dr. Scott J. Kolbaba, MD
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Research Finding

Intercessory prayer studies, while controversial, have prompted serious scientific inquiry into mind-body-spirit connections.

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